“Conversations with Other Women” is one of the more bittersweet films I’ve seen. It begins at a wedding reception where a man (Aaron Eckhart) spots a woman (Helen Bonham Carter) that fancies his interest. He gets two glasses of champagne and approaches her. From here the 86-minute movie plays out in roughly real time as the two converse throughout the remainder of the night.
The most noticeable technique used in the movie is that there are two cameras on the actors throughout the course of the movie. The screen is split down the line, with one camera focusing entirely on the man, and the other focusing entirely on the woman. This brings an effect employed by the documentary “Woodstock” where one of the cameras will periodically switch to a past event or with other characters that will serve to form contradictions, revelations, inner thoughts and expectations in comparison to what the man and woman are talking about. It’s a great method that must have been very hard to shoot and edit because you essentially have two scenes going on at the same time. But the film pulls it off and the final result works beautifully here.
I enjoy “bottled” movies like these where we follow two people for an extended period of time in one general area for the majority of the film. My favorite Bergman film “Scenes From A Marriage” comes to mind. That was a movie that almost exclusively dealt with a married couple’s fall from love and subsequent reformation. All told in extensive, single scenes in one area.
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Some viewers might pick up from the very beginning, some maybe half way through the movie (I picked up about fifteen minutes in), but everyone will know by the end that there is a connection between the man and woman that is almost never said aloud. What that connection is, I will not say, but it goes to show the strength of the writing and the acting of Eckhart and Carter that the revelation is not obvious but a natural progression. They seem to be talking about something, but underneath, they are talking about something else entirely and there is never any moment where the movie goes: “Hey, this is what they are really talking about!“ It trusts are intelligence to eventually figure it out. After I made the revelation I was shocked and after a few minutes I couldn’t image how they could have been talking about what I thought they were talking about before. Still with me?
For how well written the script is and how creative the camera shots are, the movie would have fallen apart if the two leads were not good, and, in this inspired coupling, Helena Bonham Carter and Aaron Eckhart are amazing. Both do a great job at giving the dialog weight; occasionally giving looks and silences that evoke a history of regretted decisions, questionable statements and unsure futures.
There’s not much else really to comment on the movie, lest I go to spoiler territory. But the movie doesn’t abide by the same plot structure you usually see in film. It is an observation of two people having an intimate conversation for an hour and a half. Take in the wonderful performances and dialog and remember, as the characters do, that when the movie is over, you will never see them again.
Rating: 4/4